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Each moment puts you at a crossroads.

Each moment, a definitive moment.

For in each and every moment, in each second, you have a choice.

You can choose left or right

You can choose yes or no

You can choose to go or stay

To respond or ignore

To avoid or confront

And each choice will set you on a course, a course of your own choosing

No excuses.

No shifting blame

No outsourcing of your responsibility and projecting onto others.

It’s the choices you make (or fail to make) that establishes the course of your life.

Establishes your relationships

How you interact with the world and how the world interacts with you.

Because ultimately, it’s the choices you make that are indicative of who you are –

but still never indicative of who you can be.

So today, again, you’re at the crossroads.

Just one decision away from a completely different life, 

from taking a completely different course.

And the onus is totally on you – this is your superpower.

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